To the average person, this warning appears as a deterrent to smoking but to an experienced self sabotage coach, it’s actually something that attracts the saboteur. Below I list the benefits a saboteur receives by getting sick and staying sick.
1) the saboteur sees the picture and knows, “if I’m sick, more people will visit me, take care of me and pay attention to me. With sickness my weekly schedule is full of doctor’s appointments, charity events, tests, specialist meetings, family phone calls and pharmacy visits. If I’m not sick, I won’t really leave the house and human contact is minimized. I’ll stay sick because it simply feels better on an emotional level.”
2) the saboteur sees the picture and knows, “in our society the people who are healthy, successful and independent get heavily criticized, mocked and even punished at times. (non vaxxers are one obvious example) Inversely, the sick people get waited on hand and foot. Sick people are also celebrated and given the lime light in our society as warriors, survivors and fighters. I’ll join the latter group because it’s safer and it satisfies more of my emotional needs than being independent, able and healthy.”
3) the saboteur sees the picture and knows, “if I’m sick I get financial support from the government, a free motorized scooter, free governemnt transport during the winter or rainy months plus the doctor touches me and no one has touched me in over 15 years. I’ll stay sick because it satisfies the emotional requirements I’m not receiving in real life, when I’m healthy. Plus if I get healthy, my unhealthy family and sick/overweight friends may reject me, so I need to stay sick to keep my loved ones close.”
The love and attention energy a human requires to feel good can make the human animal do the oddest things. This is why self sabotage coaching is really important to help people understand why they’re having a passionate love affair with failure, sickness, disease, crisis, stagnation and chaos. Get a self sabotage coach today and learn how to get your emotional needs met internally, so you don’t walk into your worst life and die early.


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