What does “an extramarital affair” have to do with weight gain? More than most people believe. When you place a dam in a river, the water starts to build up behind it and the pressure on the wall of the dam starts to increase. (stress) The water behind the dam will start to stagnate and become a fertile pool for disease and decay. The diseased water will then only attract other factors of equal vibration. (negatives will attract other negatives) Eventually the flowing water will find it’s way around the dam (or the dam will burst) because life is about movement and never about stagnation. Life wants to live so life moves the situation forward. You can’t dam spirit or life energy. It refuses to be still. Think about human spirit (the life energy that drives you) as invisible waves of energy that travel around the planet looking for a human host to live through.

What happens when humans invent ideas that place “belief dams” inside their minds? Well, the same sort of pressure, stress and stagnation can occur……….and we all see signs of this pressure everyday. As in nature, so in ourselves because we are nature. Humans sometimes get it right and sometimes humans get it wrong with the ideas they invent. That’s life and we need to try as many ideas as possible, to see which ones suit us best. When an idea is not good…. it will cause stress, fear, disease and weight gain. (a deformation of our energy and our body)

Do we have any physical evidence that some of our primary ideas are not serving the majority of our citizens? Well, we have 80% of the populaiton overweight and on one medication or more, childhood disease is sky rocketing, financial debt is at record levels and we also see more than 50% of marriages end in divorce. A great deal more married people want to get divorced but don’t because of the impossibility walls their belief systems erect inside their minds.

The pressure builds too great for some and that’s why places like Las Vegas exist. Las Vegas is a physical manifestation of the pressure humans place themselves under, by inventing ideas, which build a certain class of stress inside the human body.  Sometimes we see married people “burst” as the pressure gets too great. It’s like they lose their mind but are they really going insane?. Friends and family often hurry in to help build the dam wall again but is that the right thing to do? What is the right thing to do? I don’t have your answer. Only you can guide your ship on your journey. All I know is that our dysfunction, disease and weight gain as a society comes from living ideas that don’t serve us. It could be coffee for breakfast when we need food or it could be restrictive ideas, it doesn’t mater. There are ideas that help us and ideas that hurt us. Just look out the window, there are obviously many ideas being given life out there that hurt us. You can’t argue that.  It’s not like a couple people are getting bad results, most people are. At our current pace, our society will collapse within our lifetime because less and less people are healthy enough to work. When the majority are disabled because of weight gain and disease, a society collapses.

Just last week I was listening to the radio and an advertisement came on regarding a new website called Ashley Madison. It’s the first website for married people who want to date and have an affair, while still married. There are tens of millions of subscribers and it’s only a couple of years old. Our society has symptoms that we are choosing to lead stressful lives, in order that we conform to ideas that don’t serve us. The children of our society look at these things and draw instant conclusions that the “adults” can’t get their “stuff” together and that a good bunch of us are foolish. Living conflicting idea sets causes more chronic stress and disease than any other mental construct. Imagine the energy it takes to exercise and then smoke a cigarette? Imagine the energy it takes to be married and have an affair at the same time? Living two opposing idea sets will exhaust your energy faster than running back to back marathons.  

There’s no set direction or guru based guidance in this post today. As humans we really need to decide who we are and what we need because when we live ideas that don’t work for us long term, we are bound to gain weight and get sick. Finding out who we are and what we need starts with fine tuning your body with a healthy lifestyle……….as for where it ends………….I don’t know.

As for those happy spirits that travel around the planet looking to find human hosts to live in, they’re theorized to only want to live in “fun and healthy bodies” or “bodies that live truth“. Fun ideas land in fun and happy people and the bad ideas land in unhappy and miserable people. That means that the more idea sets you live that defy who you really are, the more your existing/fun spirits leave and the less new/fun spirits will be attracted into your energy system. 

Picture someone who’s in love right now. Do you see the fun spirits dancing in and around them, changing the person’s behavior. Find someone who lives an idea set that doesn’t serve them. (like an alcoholic, someone who’s overweight or someone taking lots of medications or geting elective surgeries etc) What spirits do you see dancing in and around them?  We are transportation devices for the spirits of the Universe. What spirits possess your body? If you want more happy spirits to land in your body you need to make it healthy and attractive by living more “truth” in your life.

The point is if you want to be healthy and thin you need to live ideas that are congruent with who you really are. (if you’re gay be gay…….don’t be straight to fit in or if you’re a surfer be a surfer…….don’t be a lawyer just to fit in etc) Look to your body (as it will let you know with weight gain, dysfunction and disease) as to which ideas serve you. If your body is overweight or sick (or you can’t stop hurting yourself with junk food, booze, abusive exercise or work habits etc), it’s best to conduct this “idea review” sooner than later.