Two NHL hockey players have died this summer. Both were “fighters” on their respective teams. We love them and wish their families strength at this time.

As a society we’re about as far away as we can get from understanding these sorts of things. First, we need to come to grips with the idea that there are only two forces in the entire Universe. Those two forces are love and fear. Fear breeds all negative emotions (hate, jealousy, rage etc) and love breeds all positive emotion. (happiness, peace, compassion etc). Where you find negative emotions, you’ll always find a lack of love. (most likely in the early years of someone’s life)

Fighters, regardless if inside a professional sport or not, are highly correlated with not having enough love and security as children. There’s also a primary institution in our society that breeds fear in children with it’s teachings. The greater the exposure to this institution as a child, the greater the fear. This fear breeds violence, as all fear does regardless of source. This violence did get these amazing athletes jobs in the NHL but when the game was over, the fear still remained…..as did the other negative emotions derived from that fear. When others weren’t around to attack or hurt, these hockey players started to target themselves. (alcohol, medications etc etc)

The vibrational force of fear operates like a radio signal, broadcasting strongest over “self” and then washing over everyone around you. This fear, hate and violence becomes second nature…….as the fear becomes imprinted into our cellular function. (literally) You become afraid all the time and have no idea what you’re really afraid of or why.

There’s no greater way to instil fear in a child than to tell them there’s a man in the sky who loves them but that man will take that love away (and punish you severely) if you don’t do certain things. It doesn’t help that the list of things you’re given to do, which will bring you the love of the man in the sky, are impossible to measure up to. Every church has a confession booth because they already know the result of this “set up”. The fear of love being taken away from a child, for any reason, is the greatest fear you can instil in a child’s mind. It’s like telling a plant you won’t water it anymore.

Many stories told inside certain religious institutions trigger this fear and these stories are well known control mechanisms for young minds. These same stories even consistantly refer to adults as “children” because of the benefit associated with trying to keep the adult mind in a child like state. The child mind is easiest to manipulate and control. Only children believe in stories like Santa, The Easter Bunny and men living in the sky who always judge you. (Santa judges as well all year and is a relgious extension of that same idea – good old “SAINT” Nick) Click here to view a religious priest actually coming forward to discuss these exact issues, inside his own religion.

Once any child is not provided with a constant flow of love, the child’s metabolism becomes weak and stagnant. Nothing good can grow in a weakened or stagnant state. Sorry, something does grow well in a stagnant state……and that’s mental and physical dysfunction.

Then we have the issues of depression and the prescription medications these two hockey players were most likely taking to deal with the fear, which had become the constant background music in their lives. All medications have long lists of side effects, which equal increases in suffering. The same institution alluded to above also teaches a benefit to suffering plus it provides a role model (leader) who demonstrated the ultimate blue print for suffering. (just in case you forget how to gauge your own suffering). These drugs, which include side effects of suicide and instant death, just help people in fear get what they think they deserve anyway……..which is more negative in their lives. They are taught from any early age that life is about constantly judging yourself and others against a standard you can never achieve happiness with. The cycle of despair is never ending and the final product is often people like these two tragic hockey players. The end benefit for that institution is a constant flow of people with money in hand trying to wash away the idea that they’re human. Obviously when humans hate themselves for being human, the money never stops flowing.

These sort of people self sabotage, often to tragic ends, because they were told happiness was out of reach to them due to their faulty design. Humans are designed so badly that someone’s son had to come visit earth and then die for their sins. In the mind of a child, that means you’re pretty bad and bad people don’t deserve success because they need to spend most of their time repenting and beating themselves up mentally. It’s an invisible glass ceiling where you attack yourself for achieving your own dreams. It’s an awful belief system in my opinion. It means you can never ever enjoy success and are programmed to make sure it never happens in your life. The better you become, the more you try and knock yourself down. The harder your life, the more you believe you’re carrying your own cross through the streets. (the big benefit of your suffering coming when you die and not when you’re living….just like a famous relgious role model) What looks like “yo-yo” dieting is often this cycle taking physical form as well. (happiness programmed into the young mind to feel like guilt and selfishness) Any cycle where you gain success and then sabotage that success is reflective of the belief that you didn’t really deserve that success in the first place and the great majority of people who do self sabotage have been exposed to popular religion as children. That’s a fact.

I will stop there. We have lots to learn as a society and we need to first step away from the idea that happiness is bad and suffering is good. Our bodies are already designed with an internal GPS, which is programmed that happiness is good and suffering is bad. When you get your wires crossed, all hell will break loose in your life. (literally) The only hell you’ll ever see is the one you make for yourself here on earth when you get programmed as a child that suffering is some how going to serve you here or in the after life.