Talking to a lady last night who wants to get healthy but she also takes medical drugs, which of course list the ways the drug is going to make her more sick……as side effects. Each medication is poison to the body and is warned of as poison by the drug maker, no exceptions. She’s trying to get healthy yet she’s eating medical poison every day? Will this make her healthy or is something else going on inside the mind? I know a guy who likes fasting but he also gets drunk almost every weekend. I know people who jog on the treadmill but eat cookies at night. I know married people who seek out the next big affair. I know a lady who was just diagnosed with precancerous tumors in her breast. She reached out in desperation for some advice regarding reversing the tumors. As the advice was tabled she recounted that she could only follow through on the advice after she finished another toxic starvation diet, so she could look better during an upcoming trip, where she was going to get drunk and eat bad food for a week.
Self sabotage is about an on-going tug of war inside the mind, where the person constantly gets pulled in two separate directions simultaneously. Self sabotage is about taking 1 step forward and 1 step back, 1 step forward and 1 step back. The person themselves appears really busy and may even have have a full schedule (not a second to spare) but they get absolutely no where in life. Because the body ages naturally, the mere act of embracing behavior based in stagnation……means we’re going to get sick, overweight, depressed, addicted and bankrupt on all levels very quickly, no exceptions. Self sabotage is about never becoming more because all the effort is placed into becoming less.
Coaching people out of self sabotage is about helping them envision a life where there is no internal war, no conflict and having each part of the personality moving in only one direction, as opposed to opposite directions. Imagine if all there was inside the mind was peace, a firm dedication to one goal, one mission, one amazing life. This is called “the magical third option”……which is the opposite of living out our “slave/slave master” or “abuser/taker of the abuse” programming. Inside the programmed war raging within our own minds (which always involves two sides destroying each other), there is a better way. How did that war programming get inside our minds in the first place? That’s all part of the coaching and I also teach you how to remove it. I’m currently full for coaching on self sabotage next month but I am developing an on line course. If you would like to be placed on the e-mail list for my brand new on line course, (regarding self sabotage, weight loss and healthy living) coming out in November 2018, just private message me your e-mail address. Push the prions door open, you will find it was never locked.
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