Always use the FLY RULE to develop the love that our inverted society will never provide you. The FLY RULE stands for FIRST LOVE YOURSELF. Today most people are in perpetual crisis, always wanting for someone to save them, yet they don’t realize that the only person they can ever count on and the only person who will always be there for them…….is themselves. Once you power from the inside, nothing can control your destiny. Nothing. Once you power your life from internal sources, all your relationships transform into mutually beneficial partnerships instead of being based on a dysfunctional form of child-like dependence. Connect to yourself and go inside to find your true power. The FLY RULE always revolves around health as well. Loving yourself can be judged by the food you eat, the water your drink, the exercise you conduct, the relaxation you engage in and the thoughts you think. People who are healthy will always be the best lovers, because they already know how to love and care for themselves really well…..and that means they’re already skilled in what it takes to love you too. Practice love on your home field first and then once you master it there, work it outwards to the rest of the world.