If you take away a person’s coffee, they’re tired. Take away their alcohol and they’re bored. Take away their meds and they can’t blame their disease for making them sick, instead of pointing the finger squarely at themselves. Take away their shopping and they can’t fill themselves up from the outside. Happiness is always an inside job, not an outside trip to the mall. Take away their screens and they don’t have anything to do. Take away their tattoos and they’ll realize that they can’t purchase who they are, they have to forge that internally. Take away their voting and you remove their mechanisms of fake control and fake freedom. Take away their gossip or drama and they would have focus on the human mess they are, instead of always looking outwards toward others. Take away their hospital visits or appointments with the next “specialist” and they wouldn’t have a single thing on their agenda for the week. The self saboteur will always accessorize and decorate their empty life, because it’s easier, safer and more secure to do so…….but it’s a trap.

Maybe this year make a change and learn how to overcome self sabotage. I’m giving a live 2 day workshop on overcoming self sabotage in late November. The dates will be released this week and it will sell out very quickly, just like last year. I’m also recording the event and offering a discounted purchase price for pre-ordering. If you’re looking to make some big changes in 2019, this is your chance. I know it can be scary to come back into full contact with your reality but my information can help make it easier. If you’re interested, private message me your e-mail address. Power to the people.