When we’re children, the energy of the world and all who’s in it, flows toward us. As children we’re changed, fed, clothed, cuddled and we’re encouraged in everything we do. This is the natural life of a child, the energy flows into us…….AND it flows INTO US for a very important reason. There’s a point in our young lives when we’re expected to take on the ancient rite of passage from child to adult. As we morph into an adult, we now take the energy put into us by the tribe and we start moving that energy out of us, having this energy flow in the opposite direction. As a child, the energy flows into us. As a true adult in the tribe, the energy flows out of us. That energy built us as children. In the circle of life, we’re expected to give that energy back as adults, to complete the circle.
Our energy is pushed into us when we’re young, so that this stored energy flows out of us when we’re older. Often self sabotage is about the refusal to embrace the ancient rite of passage from child to adult. Sometimes we act like wounded birds and embrace learned helplessness because we want the energy to keep flowing toward us. We miss the child position, where others care for us, instead of us caring for ourselves. Living in a permanent childhood, as a fully physically mature adult, means we embrace weakness and dysfunction…….to not only keep tribal energy flowing into us under false pretenses but we also avoid our true adult role in the tribe. By living as a permanent child, we become energy vampires, engaging in tribal destruction and cosmic laziness…..sucking the tribe dry of its’ energy when the true adult is supposed to be giving their energy back into the collective. This hurts the tribe, the individual and eats away at the very foundation of what it means to live inside an ever evolving society. If we’re strong, healthy and vital specimens……..the tribe will come and drink from that energy, as is the circle of life. Strong members of society are leaned up by everyone, until they’re nothing but dust in the wind. This is natural yet other adults are supposed to be produced. Today that’s not happening. If someone is overweight, weak, lazy and diseased…….they become an energy taker, which is OK if you’re a child but not OK if you’re an adult. A lady at 250 lbs, who wants to be 160lbs, subconsciously knows that she gets more energy directed her way at 250lbs then she would ever get at 160 lbs…….so as she loses her first 20lbs she self sabotages her diet and she often doesn’t know why. Leave a comment below if you want to learn more about self sabotage and how to overcome it……….
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