In order to live to finally be happy we need to look closely at the questions…. “Am I safe yet? Do I fit in yet? Am I happy yet?” Our lives are purposely designed by our social engineers to operate like a mad and rabid scavenger hunt, where we race out into the world grabbing this and grabbing that………and then we run back to a desk at the “societal approval agency“, throwing our acquired material based items on the desk, being completely out of breath and asking, “Am I safe yet? Do I fit in yet? Am I happy yet“. At that point, the soulless person manning the desk at the “societal approval agency” declares, “you are close but not yet……….you need this, this and that now, according to our new upgraded rules in order to be safe, happy and to fit in! Run back out into the world and see if you can get those items and come back as fast as you can. I will be waiting to grade your acquisitions.”

First the “societal approval agency” tells you that you need good marks in school, then you need everyone to like you, then you need to go to college or University where you’ll master KNOWING NOTHING other than a very small topic where you’ll know more than others but also know nothing about anything else, then you need to get a job you don’t really like and forget about any of your internally motivated personal dreams or desires, then you need to pick one romantic partner for life, then you need to get married…………..and then you run back exhausted to the societal approval agency (the SAA) to ask, “Am I safe yet? Do I fit in yet? Am I happy yet? The person working the desk at the SAA says…. “Not quite yet. You’re almost there though. Just a little more suffering, restriction and self imposed slavery and everything’s going to come together for you. All you need to do is keep locking yourself into smaller and smaller rooms, which contain less and less personal freedoms and when you finally lock yourself into a life where you don’t have an inch to spare, when you have absolutely no freedom and no control of your personal time or space what so ever, when you can’t even breathe because there’s no room left to expand your lungs…………then you’ll be happy, safe and fit in. Get out there and keep going. Come back as soon as you comply fully and then we can get the happy paper work approved and get the shipment of “happy” over to your house ASAP.”

But even when you arrange for all that and you stagger back mentally deranged, medicated, overweight, exhausted, looking 10 years older than you really are, depressed, dis-empowered, diseased, dissatisfied, dysfunctional and you ask crying at the counter of the societal approval agency…”Am I safe yet? Do I fit in yet? Am I happy yet?”, they reject your application once again because you forgot that you need to have kids, you need to put your kids in sports, in more after school activities, you’re not busy enough yourself, you need more tattoos, you need a bigger house, you need to play sports after work yourself, join a club, get involved, you need a nicer car, what about that new rock concert or sporting event, lose more weight, get this plastic surgery or that, submit to these medical tests, take those medications, inject these vaccines, you need to send your kids to college or University so they get a job for 35 years that they won’t enjoy building someone else’s dreams, you need to give money to charity, how about some body piercings, a newer cell phone, you need to have an affair before you die so you don’t miss out, you need to smoke more marijuana, go on bigger trips, drink more expensive wines, have more people over for dinner, watch more movies, change the fashion of your clothes every season plus accomplish your own personal bucket list. Come back when that’s all done and at that time, you can reapply for happy. It never ends folks because it was never designed to end. It’s a trap. You were born with everything you need to be happy. They just take it away and sell you man made versions of what was stolen, that of course never leave you satisfied or happy in anyway….so you never stop purchasing, moving, working for others, borrowing and destroying yourself.

The motto of this story is that happiness, fitting in and a sense of safety have nothing to do with what you buy or looking outwards. What you seek is already in you. You are what you seek and that my friends can be accessed at anytime plus it will always cost you nothing. Watch the below video to find out what happiness is really all about…..