Today we see children acting out with unhealthy behaviors yet we also see many adults acting out in a similar way. The big secret is that our current adult population used to be young children at one time and their learned ideas about violence and bullying have shaped our world. Is bullying a new problem or are our children trying to fit into our already violent society?

We have “stop bullying” campaigns at the same time as our adult leaders are bombing other communities, elsewhere in the world. Could this contradictory message be affecting the children in a negative way? Are we shining the light on our children, making them wear pink t-shirts on stop bullying days, to somehow deflect the attention away from how we as adults are participating in obvious and not so obvious forms of bullying? Are we to expect our own children to lead us toward a less violent future when we as adults don’t really understand that we may be bullying ourselves or others in ways we aren’t even talking about?

How about when an athlete takes steroids? Is a steroid enhanced athlete or body builder not bullying their bodies into a shape and certain level of performance using violent means? How about a celebrity who gets a very obvious breast augmentation? Is this woman not bullying her body and forcing her body to present in a particular way using a violent attack on self? Is fear not involved in all bullying? Is the athlete not afraid when they turn to steroids? Is the celebrity not afraid when they turn violence on themselves? When children see adults in fear and adults who bully themselves, how does that affect the children’s state of fear or confidence that the adults won’t turn the same violence on them? If a person will bully or enact violence on themselves, doesn’t it make them already pre-qualified to enact violence on another person? If we can hurt ourselves, what hope do we have of not hurting someone else? If you’ll hurt you, you’ll hurt others. This is proven.

Bullying is about something more powerful using violence or force toward something incapable of defending itself? What about taxation? What do the children see when they look into the adult world? A government who will place violence on anyone at anytime if they don’t pay what is demanded of them yet you have no direct vote in what that amount is? What about when a child is slapped on the rear end at birth and then taken away from their mother immediately after birth? Are we really to believe children are missing these acts of violence and cruelty because they’re certainly acting out like they’re remembering every second of it. Science tells us young minds don’t remember but it’s obvious that’s a big fib and that’s not a surprise as science and medicine are at the forefront of benefiting from all the dysfunctional living we’re allowing to impact ourselves and our children. Imagine how our cultural traditions would look to anyone just visiting our planet, which is basically the experience of a child. What does the child see? Does the child feel safe? The adults in our society don’t even feel safe so how can the children feel safe? We’ve live inside fear like a fish lives inside water. We can’t see it because it’s all around us.

What about c-sectioning a child from a mother’s womb to satisfy the time table of a doctor? What about circumcision? How can a parent declare they love their child and then let a doctor remove a part of the infants’ natural anatomy in a bloody and painful ritual, all with the consent of the parent? What about formula feeding, which equates to literally starving the child of what the child needs to develop properly? Do we really need to get back to work to buy stuff we don’t need or are we so use to treating our kids with disrespect and violence that we don’t even comprehend the real issues? They’re just kids, they won’t remember! I beg to differ.

Can you see the violence against something that can’t defend itself? What about a vitamin K shot at birth, which contains toxic synthetic vitamin K plus alcohol and toxic preserving compounds? What about violence in the movies? Even children’s movies. In many Disney movies the mother is either absent or killed. In “Finding Nemo” the mother was eaten in the first scene by a barracuda. In “Dumbo” the mother was taken away, never to return. In “Bambi” the mother was killed.

Inside a child’s mind the death of a mother is proven one of the most horrifying events they could ever witness but we buy these movies and rush everyone to watch. It’s a fear buffet because we as adults have been re-programmed to believe that exposing children to all this is just the way things work and no big deal. All with our consent and all with consequences we aren’t contemplating properly. Our children are scared to death because of the world we’ve created for them and how we serve them up to indirect and direct forms of violence. These scared children grow up to be violent adults and further channel their negative energy into the adult version of bullying, which can be pretty substantial when some of the children become leaders of countries with big weapons. We have a fear problem disguised as a war problem and we have a parenting problem disguised as a behavior problem.

What about vaccination where the injection is just the tip of the violence ice berg, where the majority of violence comes after the toxic vaccine ingredients stir up the exact same hormones produced when we’re attacked physically from the outside. Poisoning our own metabolism is violent. A hepatitis B shot is the first vaccine at birth and it’s for a disease associated with unprotected sex and IV drug use. Why are we letting anyone inject toxins into our child, let alone using the excuse that our child has to be protected from viral attacks associated with sexual contact and IV drug use? We’re no longer thinking or acting and that’s why the kids are scared to death. We’re no longer parenting. We’re allowing full unfettered access to our children by parties who should not have ANY access to our children.

We just sit there and serve our children up to the violence….and yes government scientists have already discovered a direct link between vaccines and autism. What would happen if we decided to protect our children instead of going along with the violence buffet we’re serving them today? We may never know unless parents start acting like parents, adults start acting like adults and we all start seeing the very obvious forms of attack on our children.

We are watching the violence done to children without resistance. We are presenting the violence to the children and we’re passing it off as “just the way things are done“. Our children are not developing mentally because inside the body there are two major biological programs. One is defense and the other is growth. When the body is in defense mode from fear, mental growth isn’t possible because in fear higher IQ pathways are purposely shut down. High IQ’s and moving toward the brain activity of an adult isn’t beneficial in a defense situation. Being dumb and violent is beneficial when you’re in a fight for your life. Our kids are scared and many adults appear to have lived lives as scared children at one time as well….and everyone eating from the fear buffet appears stuck at a very low level of IQ. How else can we explain not protecting our children, which is the most basic genetic program we carry? It’s a purposeful dumbing down of society and this attack on society is a well researched topic.

What about Halloween when we as adults insist on driving more pollution into our children just because someone else said it was OK to do it. It appears that’s the big qualification in our adult “order taking” program. As long as someone says it’s OK to enact violence on the children we’ll do it. We’re right there, just count us in. What about hockey practice and feeding the kids red colored sugar water (Gatorade) and hot dogs? What about leaving on a long road trip with the kids and not packing ANY healthy foods? What about when adults arrange their romantic lives in such a way that conflict (either verbal or physical) is often a guarantee. The kids are exposed to all this and much more. Do you think they feel safe or are the adults looking a little less than sane, predictable and stable in the eyes of a child? Look at the adults today. Take a long hard look. Are they real adults, thinking independently or do they only have adult bodies and are just taking orders from third parties to the complete detriment of their own offspring?

Imagine a child looking at all this happening around them. How protected do they feel? The adults around them are either allowing the violence to occur to the child without protest or resistance or the adults are attacking themselves violently with toxic drugs, processed foods, alcohol, elective surgeries, narcotics, cigarettes excessive work agendas, Ultimate fighting, tattoos, piercings, punishing exercise regimes etc. The kids are in constant fear because the adults are violent themselves and are also allowing violence to occur toward the children unchallenged. Our children won’t feel safe and loved unless we get our act together as adults and show the children we’re capable of treating ourselves with self love and self respect. What happens when a child sees the adult taking care of them is no more an adult than they are? The answer to that is extreme fear and terror.

Fear is what has the ability to change a child’s metabolism into something that the average person on the street would describe as anti-social or violent. We have one fear reaction in the body and it doesn’t matter if we eat poison, inject poison, watch someone punching another person on TV or get punched for real ourselves………….we have the exact same fight or flight reaction. That reaction is designed to make you violent. No one can help the end reaction but we can shield the children from violent attack, exposure and imagery. Again, only one fear based reaction exists in the body and when it gets turned on, we’re more prone to violence against self, other people, other living things and the planet in general. As a parent, you need only judge yourself on one criteria. Are you shielding your child from violence and can you pick out what IS violence before it negatively affects your child’s behavior now and in the future?