Imagine a lady who wants a very particular job but she doesn’t put out any applications for it. She never gets any qualifications or certifications, which would make her a good candidate for that job either. So she just sits at home hoping a company who doesn’t know her, will knock her door down and drag her off to her dream job. We know employment doesn’t work like this and we know not many people actually do that…..but how many people actually follow this exact pattern with their romantic lives?

Most people (who are single) sit at home, hoping the love of their life stumbles across them by chance or accident, while doing absolutely nothing to make their hopes a reality……regarding what it takes to attract that partner or even let the Universe know they are looking for x, y and z in a mate. Most people put more time into choosing their cars in most cases, compared to the time they put into choosing their romantic partners…..and then many wonder why their love lives aren’t producing the fruits they had hoped for. This is a very common form of self sabotage, to not take full control of our own lives…..in some very important areas.

Self sabotage can be financial, health wise or even with our relationships. We’re afraid to try because most people are afraid to take part in their own success. That’s why most people are OK playing the lottery but will sit back and work a life sentence down at ABC Shit Factory…….because “trying” means you could fail and failing means you could be judged. That’s most people’s greatest fear! The fear of what other people think of them. Everyone loves the janitor but most people are programmed to dislike the CEO, so aiming low always comes with a very inverted shine on it. Most people aim low with their dreams because is just a safer card to play in the poker game of life. Although we can get safety aiming low, we often get misery, addictions and mental health issues coming along for the ride. These fears of success are natural but we can indeed reprogram for success and become perfectly OK living out our best lives. This reprogramming involves overcoming your self sabotage and then getting the proper information moving forward. Come work with me in 3 weeks and I will help you get your life moving in the right direction.