As a self sabotage coach, I can tell you that human behavior is simple. The way someone does one thing is the way they do everything. If someone abuses themselves, there’s no way they won’t abuse you. If someone can’t care for themselves, there’s no way they’ll be able to care for you. What’s also interesting is that we’re often attracted to people who vibrate at the same frequency as ourselves. This means self abusers find other self abusers attractive, simply because the basis of human behavior is to like people just like us. In a crowded room, equal vibrations will always seek each other out, no matter how far away they are or how many other people are in the room. We can always smell our energetic match, which is great……..unless your energy signature is dark, dysfunctional and seeking of perpetual chaos. The chaos vibration is the most common frequency today, simply because our government and media purposely drown us in fear, chaos, panic and terror. Most people see this as normal and therefore seek that chaos vibration in everything they do. People who vibrate at a chaos frequency won’t be attracted to anything or anybody peaceful or stable. We all know these people, the perpetual human mess. But it doesn’t have to be like this.

It’s natural to be attracted to people like ourselves because finding someone similar in behavior, belief or vibration to us……lessens our chance of rejection and therefore increases our chances of mate acceptance. So if you’re looking to steer clear of trouble in your life, regarding your romantic partners, you steer clear of people who self abuse with coffee, caffeine, alcohol, junk food, drugs, nicotine, meds or chemicals of any kind. These chaos vibrators are often energy vampires but again, they’ll always attract other energy vampires

If you’re attracted to people who constantly dull their own shine (and therefore are inherently afraid of their own human potential), it often says more about you than it does about the people you’re attracted to. If you’re attracted to people who underachieve and destroy their human potential with feel good pleasure chemicals of any kind, it’s a pretty firm indication that you’re most likely afraid of rising up into your best life as well. You can have any partner you want in life. You can actually have any life you want as well. You just need to learn how to increase your internal deserve level and then you’ll attract that equal vibration in another. Self sabotage coaches know how to help people change their base vibration, as to manifest more successful life outcomes, straight across the board.