Most people focus too much on what they don’t want. “I don’t want to be sick”. “I don’t want to be overweight.” “I don’t want to be married to someone like that .” Stating what you DON’T WANT is very very different than focusing on what you do want. For example, can you imagine getting into a cab in Toronto and the cabbie asks, “where would you like to go?” and you say, “well, I DON’T want to go to the CN Tower” and so the cabbie responds, “OK, so where do you WANT to go?” and you say “well, I certainly don’t want to go to train station.” So the cab never goes anywhere……and that can be your life if you only focus on what you don’t want. It’s all wretch and no vomit……it never gets there and you never make any progress or do what you need to do.

The saying is, “if you don’t know where you’re going, any road will get you there.” If we get more specific with our goals, many pieces of the puzzle just fall into place because of various principles involved with quantum physics. The Universe conspires to help you out, either a little or a whole bunch (depending on how powerful your vibration, health, beliefs etc are) but again the magic in the cosmos has to know what you want.

Not wanting to be lonely is very different than having the intent to meet the person of your dreams and fall in love. Not wanting to be overweight is very different than the intent to eat right, exercise and to expose yourself to positive people. Not wanting to be poor is very different than the intent to follow some financial gurus on Youtube, who provide free advice on how you can start your own “side hustle” business. Of course knowing what you don’t want is a very important process that helps you narrow down what you do want……but get very clear where you want to go and what you want to achieve, so your spirit team can lend a hand. If you need any help moving mountains in your life (or even just feeling a little better about yourself) start with my master workshop recording for overcoming self sabotage.