I remember a lady who wanted to be the perfect wife. She acquired her behavior DOWNLOAD for “the perfect wife” from media mostly, her parents second (via religious programming) and her greater cultural tribe third. She would never look at another man, comment on another man and when a good looking man would walk by………..she would immediately look at the ground. She believed this made her stand above her peers, regarding her behavior and she believed this represented “the high moral ground” (a guarantee that her marriage would stand the test of time). She turned off her sexual energy toward other men….or so she believed.

Unfortunately the body doesn’t work like that. Sex energy is like water. It needs to flow to stay fresh, clean and healthy to drink. If you stop the flow of any water source, it stagnates and makes a great environment for parasites and other “unhealthy” opportunistic creatures. Eventually she was so good at “shutting down” her sexual energy….she became uninterested in sex altogether. Not only was the marriage under much stress because the garden was without water, this lady started to experience disease in her sexual organs…..because energy, blood and life force were no longer flowing as nature intended. Does this mean you should walk around in a robe, drive a Corvette and join a sex cult? Of course not. Just take in the beauty of your world, get excited and then maybe bring that honey home for the one you love. Know how your body and mind works so you live a better life.