I’ve run into chronic liars in my life and there’s a constant theme in their personalities…….they’ve never evolved. The reason chronic fibbers never evolve is because the evolution process is based on pain and the experience that pain provides. If you make a mistake in your life, that mistake will cause you pain and of course pain is a guardian, not a goblin. Pain exists to sit us down and allows us to ponder what it would take in the future, to experience less pain. This is the evolution process of the human animal. The chronic fibber won’t allow themselves the gift of their pain, the deep thought pain initiates or the evolution that comes from this process……so they stay stuck in a frozen state of arrested development. I remember one lady who was caught running around on her husband and the evidence was beyond clear…….yet she was raised in a family that taught her to lie when the pain teacher came knocking. In the end, although an intervention of sorts was initiated by close friends and family (calmly and rationally), she refused to look at her own behavior and denied any wrong doing. Today, although this lady is in her mid 50’s, she’s never matured past the level of a 17 year old because of her refusal to participate in this pain based evolution process…..where you fail and become better. To become better, you need to fail and feel the sting of that pain. Only then do you mature, evolve and ascend.

Our entire society acts like this collectively and this is why I call the era we live within……THE NO PAIN SOCIETY. From mind numbing morning coffee so we don’t feel how futile our jobs are to people loading themselves with nerve destructive behavior medications when they encounter regular day pains in their lives……no one wants to have their scheduled chats with the pain teacher. From cigarettes to alcohol and from brain destructive fluoride to brain destructive vaccines…….most people today simply want to numb themselves to their pain and even destroy the nervous system by which they feel that pain. People think they’re leading great lives but they’re simply leading shitty lives high on toxic chemicals. Never has such a weak and cowardly society walked this planet and there’s no way a society trapped in arrested development will ever survive. We can feel our pain and mature…..or we can perish. There is no third option.