Our addictions are proven to grow, not because substances are addictive, but because we live in a substantial amount of physical, emotional and spiritual pain. The reason this amount of pain is common (to the point where we develop self destructive thoughts and behaviors) is because our society doesn’t tell us the truth about how our minds work and how our society is designed. (let alone who’s designed our society to be like this). As a self sabotage coach, I clear the air very quickly regarding why my clients are in pain and what they have to do to remove themselves from that pain. It doesn’t take tons of work or effort…..it takes knowledge. Never imagine that there needs to be a massive amount of back breaking work completed, to change your life because there isn’t. Knowing how your mind works and knowing how your society is designed is all the knowledge you need, in order to unlock the door. After that you just push that door open and walk into a better way of being. True story.