The more in fear a person is, the more they’ll try to please the crowd by adopting the crowd’s beliefs, behaviors and appearances……as the best way to camouflage their own unique talents, differences and originality. In the end, someone in fear often self murders anything special inside themselves, in order to dedicate themselves to gaining the approval of others…..often for their entire lifetime.

Someone who’s traumatized becomes like a chameleon to those around them because it’s simply the easiest way to connect and find safety. Females unfortunately are the gender placed in the most fear over their lifetime because of their strength disadvantages and therefore it’s the female who engages in this behavior the most. To give up one’s own personal sovereignty, unique talents and soul destiny will always bring emotional and spiritual distress…….and it’s the female who complains of depression at twice the rate of their male counterparts. The masculinization of the female in regards to their role in the family, the destitution of the family unit and the purposeful feminization of the male (making the female feel extremely vulnerable to attack) doesn’t help the female’s trauma cycle what so ever. Reconnecting with our inner sovereignty and personal self-hood is where the healing can begin. Are you doing what you really want to do in life or are you just pleasing others, as the expense of your own soul?